Psychology of Success series: The courage to act
Success literature indicates, in many ways, a firm and stable rule, which is the courage to act. Most of us see big dreams, yet we lack the essential ingredient of success the courage to act.
That’s why we are not successful; we are stumbling upon success and happiness. Dreams are just illusions or hallucinations if we are not acting upon them to make them a reality.
How pity it is to have big dreams but dies with sorrows and regret? Dreaming love and respect yet being single and lonely with loneliness, stress, and depression.
The most fundamental idea of self-help philosophy is acting upon your thoughts. Action is the building block of success because it paves your path from stones thrown at you in the shape of circumstances to build a bridge among you and all your doubters and naysayers.
All successful people have one thing in common they are doers rather than just thinkers. Thinking is the first step of creation; however, most of the unsuccessful people stop at the first step and after a long waiting, they lose this first step too.
On the other hand, successful people act on their ideas this strengthen their beliefs and the repeated this process again it becomes than snowball effects as Jim Rohn says “with one success you will meet another and another”
It is so real that even the underachievers can’t deny this fact. To grow emotionally, spiritually, and mentally we ought to act and courage to take action.
It OK to fail, but it’s not failing to try. Both physically and mentally, we fear the unknown, but there is a treasure beyond the unknown, and only those can find out this that is willing to go too far beyond the known.
I have only one complaint of knowledge and learning that teaches us only what is known while there is a universe around us, which is unknown.
All known are just the experiences of others, who took their fear of unknown aside, and their courage made them knowledgeable, and they passed on these experiences to their next generations.
Let’s take an example of fire, no one knew it, but one day someone experienced it and passed it to another generation. I sometimes wonder what that is something you and I have to experience to pass it on to our next generation.
Doing that thrills me; the more I encourage myself to act, the more I feel successful and satisfied with my career precisely and with life generally.
In the way of life, you are destined to be successful if you dare to pursue your goals. Each dream, which arises from a strong desire to do something, is a seed of success, now how to encourage yourself to act upon your dreams and inspirations?
Simply do these things:
Decide your media
There are numerous programs, systems, books, audiovisual stuff on success; your responsibility is to collect and select them and use them in your favor.
Each thought and powerful strategy possible that you can read as many books you can, listen to successful people around you, and stop listening to unsuccessful people.
Listen to successful people.
People who succeed in their goals can lead you to your goals, and those were unsuccessful can guide you not to do what they have done, which kept them in a worthless category.
Absorb success literature
My strategy for success is straightforward to listen more to success staff than defeat and failure stuff.
Program yourself with positivity and especially with words and thoughts, if you want to succeed.
Stay away from negativity.
Unsubscribe regular news channels, social media, print, and electronic media for a while maybe for years, and believe me; you can do it and then create your breaking news.
Like this, today, I conquered my fear of rejection. Personal example…..
Fear of rejection
What fear of rejection do? It keeps you clinging to toxic relationships when I was walked over again and again.
I was not able to say no; now, I have set free myself from the prison of my mind, which I have created for myself for years. Now I am open to choosing whatever I wish to be.
Making your breaking news
Announce your news to yourself like; today reporter from inner self-reported that he is happy to celebrate his freedom from fear of rejection. The detailed story revealed that he was living in misery and failure.
Change your mindset
He thought previously that he was not worthy of wealth, health, and better relationships, but now he believes that he was wrong.
He was, and he is worthy of each and everything. He deserves each and everything which he desires.
Stop wasting time
Life is too short to waste; it on past misfortune and misery, misbehaves, and lack of resources. You have too much in yourself that you are lucky.
You can’t buy one moment of your life, so don’t waste your life on unimportant things; prioritize your time for most important things because there is no other way to succeed.
Act for success
I am neither preacher nor teacher; I am a student of life and death. What have I learned in life? It is a gift of God, and death is our gift to God. So, decide; what are you giving to him?
Work for it, search it, and choose among the bests. If you are not preparing yourself, to present yourself to God as a gift, so how can you expect success if you are not working for it?
God has created an unlimited universe, unlimited opportunities, and infinite potentials in you. You have to work on yourself, become creative. It is you, the one and only.
Your character is fundamental in your life; no one can play your role in your life’s drama, do some adventures so that in old age, you can remember the thrill of those adventures.
Pass on to generations
When you will be able to tell future generations what you did right or wrong in your life.
What were your excuses and results?
What do you suggest to your generation?
What are your messages, contributions, and passions about and for your life?
Are you will be living and leaving this world with regret or with passion, surprise, and satisfaction?
Life is this moment
Every moment counts, why others are manipulating your ideas and behavior? If you want to be a hero of your story, then wake up today.
Your greatest fear is not that you are not adequate; your greatest fear is that you are powerful beyond measures.
Success not your choice, but it is your destiny.
And you’re chasing your destiny.
Welcome to the road of success.