Self Actualization: You deserve more than this
Today I have to talk about this prominent area of personality psychology to whom Carl Rogers and Ibrahim Maslow call self-actualization, which is the central theme of personal psychology and growth and development: “I deserve more than this.”
Don’t settle for less
Many people get comfortable; they stop stretching and pushing themselves to higher goals. They stop thinking about their advancement in education, health, finance, and spirit. They stop working for themselves because of fear of failure. And the simple advice is doing not ever. Someone’s opinions of you should not become your destiny or reality.
You are in charge of your destiny
You are the one to decide; you are the one to choose; you have the right to change, alter, and select your reality. I am here to say to you that you deserve more than this. If you are working somewhere for someone, and have more than enough support, be thankful for their contribution to changing your dreams into reality.
Take Personal Responsibility
But don’t settle for anyone or anything. Anyone and anything comes into your life to drag you down or push you up, but it is your responsibility to maintain yourself in motion. When something drags you down, it is your responsibility to look up and get up because you are destined to a higher level of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual betterment.
Be your axis
Growth is your only destiny. When someone pulls you up, then try to revolve around your axis; this is what I am saying. Now thank both types of people for their presence and absence in your life. They played a significant role in your motivation. Now take charge of your destiny and forget about anything else, someone did wrong to you, say evil to you or about you.
Don’t waste time on unimportant
Some people have too much free time to do this but don’t waste your time on unimportant things. When you think this that you deserve more than this, you will say this to you every morning when you get up and every night when you sleep when you say this, you do something about it.
Nature of creation
When you do something about it, you create a universe that revolves around you, your goals, dreams, and ambitions. There are only three stages of existence, thinking, saying, and doing. All other forms of existence lay within these three words.
Make your world
When you think you create a mental image, this mental image is converted into voice; inner first and then out loud and clear. These waves are vibrating in your surroundings until you do what you have visualized.
Listen to yourself
Don’t stop listening to your inner voices; sometimes, they are like whispers which come from behind; listen carefully; these are divine whispers saying to you that dream that you have in your mind is possible, have the courage to pursue your dream.
Your dreams are your mission statements
The dream you envisioned countless times in your mind is your mission for which you were created. Thinking with your analytical mind will create only problems for you; it is concerned with the present.
Process of creation
Creation is a matter of selection among present, past, and future. Without keeping your past in view, you will not be able to work with the present and future because of who you are, the product of your past. Altering your mindsets will create a lot that you want to manifest.
Psychology of Mind
As a psychology student and spending years counseling patients and clients, what I know about the mind is that you can program it, reprogram it, install new software in it, and use it in your interest. Otherwise, it will work as it is working as a default.
What it will receive will react in that way; it’s up to you to use it and know how it is working. Counselors’ suggestions are challenging yet straightforward; they say that never be satisfied with what your present circumstances are saying to you. You have to do for yourself.
Be creative and think positively
Become creative to think positively. When you feel positive, mind processing will increase your capacity to stay positive and manifest your dreams, goats, and ambitions and say to yourself now and then that you deserve more than this. Don’t settle for less and always be moving; this is the key to success. Be like flowing water, not a stagnant one.
I wish you good luck!