Psychology of Success series: Stop Blaming Others

Stop blaming others which is killing you personally and professionally.

All expectation you have about others will dash into the ground and will be shattered into pieces where you will just complaining nothing else.

We all are living in a society where everyone has an assumption that their current situations and failures are the results of other’s behaviors.

But, in reality, whatever we are facing right now are results of our own thinking, doing and being.

We share the same stories

Our stories are the same with reference to success and failure.

We expect others to call us and not the other way around.

We expect others to help us but we don’t bother to help them first.

Sometimes we fall due to our expectations of others because we are not taking responsibility to be better than present circumstances.

Betterment comes with dedication, hard work and commitment towards creating possibilities.

Don’t waste your sympathies

My advice to anyone who is interested in self -development is, to end your expectations of others.

No one will ever bother your hunger, anger, and thirst only you will experience it and it will lead you to take actions.

Don’t sacrifice yourself for mean people they don’t worth your time, attention and sympathies.

Take charge of your life

Your life is yours, take full responsibility for your responses you give to your circumstances.

This will provide opportunities to unleash your potentials and recover the person you really are, not the one showing up in psycho and socio-drama of today’s society.

Don’t play victim role

When you complain, this is not an activity but a trap of self-pity, playing a victim role in any situation and avoiding any responsibility for your actions.

When you give all the responsibilities of your life to others, guess what will they do?

They will delegate it to others and this vicious cycle will continue until and unless you break it with courage and commitment.

Playing victim role may be safe but it crushes your self respect and steal your freedom.

You are then send to slavery of everything possible.

No self pity

Playing victim is a norm these days.

But for you, it shouldn’t be because you are the person of dignity and respect.

You should avoid this trap and never play this game ever.

All those who are deceiving themselves and others can play this trapping game but you are not allowed to do so, because you want to succeed.

Those people who want to succeed will never trade freedom with slavery, security with opportunity and fear with love.

What are you waiting for?

Stop blaming others and take actions to control and shape your reality.

Blaming may give you short term pleasure for insulting others but in the long run, you will hit the ground when blaming changes into guilt and shame due to ideations of the superego.

Don’t wait for other than you, to improve your life standards.

Make rituals and stick to it. Success just don’t happen, it is the achievement of higher self.

Pain of failure is strong than fear of failure. Before regarding yourself as failure, stick to this habit of not blaming others. If possible love and respect others.

Senior writer, author, editor, and researcher at AromaNish, specializing in Psychology with an impact on information technology. As a writer, he writes about business, literature, human psychology, and technology in blogs and websites for clients and businesses. He enjoys writing, reading, and traveling when he is not here with us.

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