Success is the set of mindsets that tells you how to win the battle of procrastination of your inner self to realize the creative power of imagination and visualization? It also lets you know the fantastic struggles of the fight that is inside you, and you are the only one who can help yourself to win. If you chose not to help yourself, your dreams start dying, and this is the death, even your body is still alive. The vital aspect of mindset is that you can create and destroy it with your thinking pattern and the fantastic methods of guiding your subconscious. If you want to create success mindsets, you can do that with your affirmation and subconscious guidance through positive self-talk and encouraging literature feeding your mind, heart, and soul. If you want to destroy your success mindsets, do negative self-talk, listen to your nay Sayers and influence your subconscious with destructive literature that can ruin your inner…

The denial in psychology is a choice to deny facts to avoid or minimize the psychologically uncomfortable truths. Psychoanalytic theory, call it a defense mechanism that says that when a person confronts a painful event, hurting. Regretful to accept, so they reject it to satisfy them that it is not correct when there is significant evidence to prove them wrong. And they have little to no proof of their choice. Pakistani denial is the collective unconscious of a nation that daydreams. Still, when they wake up, their situations become worst, and this the topic that I will talk in this and upcoming posts until and unless it seems that whatever I have to say is finished. There is no need for further writing. As a Pakistani writer, I am also confronted with the conflicting facts and realities that exposes itself daily. However, this pandemic taught me many lessons that will help me in my journey of further investigation of this…

Daring to be great is the worthy cause that makes it beautiful in its structure as well as a function that is the core of being champion. The vulnerability to stick to your daily conditions and useless routines is the sure way of being lost in the worthless hand to mouth life, or I call it the rat race. You will see that there is no crowd at the extra mile. Once you decide to leave the ordinary people with their irregular routines and chores, you start living the life you always dream about. The first step is tolerance of a nonsense shit the average throw at you. The second is patience while trying and failing in your dreams and goals. The first step towards greatness is to start looking at ordinary people in their lives; they live for food, fame, money, and their heritage is only their children that they born. Other than this, they have no desire to…

It is simple, but not easy. Being a psychologist is not an easy job. It needs patience, high self-esteem, and power to stick to your goals. It is hard to stand against the storm. With lesser employment opportunities and career success, you will only get satisfaction with life. If this is what you want, you are most welcome. In different countries, the requirements for being a psychologist are different. However, in a psychological community like all other fields, graduation is the first requirement. Then postgraduate diplomas are those training facilities which enhance the skills of graduates and turn them into professionals. According to (DAPA) Division of American Psychological Association (2007), 52 branches have been recognized. These are those fields in which researchers have done PhDs. So you have a broad choice of selecting among them. Various universities and degree awarding institutes are conducting separate programs mostly in clinical, educational, forensic, development, and I/O psychology. However, there are still other ones…

Scholarships are fully funded or partially funded opportunities for students having the potential of progress in the ladder of academic success but lacking resources to achieve that. Corporations, organizations, and academic and research institutes offer individuals with talent, these opportunities to pursue and accomplish their mutual interest. Students want to complete their studies, while those providing scholarships have multiple interests ranging from marketing to talent enhancement. SOURCES OF SCHOLARSHIPS Daily Newspapers The most excellent source of scholarships is the daily newspapers, especially newspapers of holidays, either national or internet. Websites The second source is that of websites of academic and research institutes. Higher Education Commissions Higher education commissions, i.e., HEC in case of Pakistan and DAAD in case of Germany. Every governmental body across the globe has access and fully aware of such opportunities. Magazines and Journals Academic magazines and research journals are rich sources of scholarships. Scholars People who have secured such scholarships are another excellent source of information…

Primary/elementary education Primary/ Elementary education is the first step of our educational system. It is the early stage of formal training followed by secondary and higher education to step up on the leader of the educational success pyramid; one is required to pass on this stage. It starts from nursery or prep and ends at nearly 5 class/grade in Pakistan. There are two types of schools in Pakistan. Governmental Schools Private Schools In Governmental schools, children aged 5-6 years begin this journey of academic excellence. At times when we were studying, there were no nursery or prep classes; instead, there was only one class called KG locally named as KACHI of one year. After passing this class, students were promoted to one grade or level, and the typical journey of education would take place. However, in recent years this method was replaced by two years preparation period generally known in public as KG-1 AND KG-2 or Nursery and Prep. These…

There is always a skill set for any given field. Counselors need listening, interpretation, understanding, and empathetic abilities. Teachers need speaking, knowledge, and teaching skills. The same is the case with content writing and writers. Being in the field for years, I have come up with these top five crucial skills for content writing. They are; 1) Reading This is not only a skill but the fuel of the creative process of writing. Reading makes everything better. It makes you think, feel, and express better. It is the driving engine of creative life. No great leader, writer, and marketer was ever successful without reading. All great people were great readers. So, if you want to go for greatness, you need to be an avid reader, and if you don’t wish to any, there is no need to bother this. Being able to write is the result of great reading. So, you need to read as much as possible. Anything which…

Do you want to know something? You first ask questions to make it clear whether the matter of concern is worth time and effort or not? The same case is with content writing. Let’s ask the following questions and try to answer them so that you may learn what is content writing, how to do it, who is going to do, and why you should invest time and resources to master it and take full advantage of it? What, How, Who, and Why? Let’s start with the first question, which is, what is content writing? Well, the simple answer is that it is a skill like singing, dancing, painting, and gardening. It is a skill sought by online or offline businesses, organizations, cause, and marketing agencies to persuade people for good to buy ideas, products, and services. The second question is how to do it? Well, it is done through an in-depth study of a subject matter in hand and try to…

Style comes with experience and persistence if you are beginning your journey of content writing, then you should not be worried about style, but it is not just like that. This writing is a skill developed through hours and hours of work, literally blood, sweat, and tears. No one was ever able to play this as a game. It is hard; cold, lonely, and throne filled road only the most patient, tolerant, and humble among us choose this. Making your style It is formed through a lot of hard work; however, it is not impossible; it is just to try your best for your style. How to do this? Here is a stepwise approach to make and continuously improve it through time and experience. Step first Study yourself Know thy self was the slogan of ancient scholars, and it is a popular concept among psychologists today too. So, the first step for you is to study yourself deeply. No need…

In this age of piracy worldwide, privacy is just a daydream. But, it is crucial to do whatever is possible to protect your privacy. In social networks like Facebook, despite all the hidden tactics and piracy practices, you still have a right to choose privacy in your account settings. Following basic settings of Facebook can be selected for your safety and peace of mind. It will also save you a lot of time and psychological labor if you are continuously working on your profile to untag yourself from dozens of pictures of friends or mutual friends than this post is for you. Never forget to share this with your family and friends. Here we go; 1. Tagging One of the worst nightmare you will find after refreshing sleep is to find your inbox full of notification of comments on pictures you are tagged in; it makes you tense and destroys your inner peace. How to get rid of this headache?…

What is content writing? You are online, and you are chatting with someone for hours; if you collect all your messages from talking or instant messaging system, you have many topics to write, and this is content writing generally. Like every other art, it is nourished through persistence, dedicated work, and hours of study and reading. Why content writing? Content writing, in itself, is just writing anything about anything else; however, in online business, it is a gold mine. As gold is an ultimate goal of mining, so is content writing; pursuing someone to buy an idea, products and services are the only purposes. Businesses can’t do this all the time because their focus is on business processes; the cash flow, employees, taxes, legal issues, competitors, and market politics, they have more things to do to get maximum profit from their businesses. Who will write content? There they need someone who can write for them to make a professional look…

Toxic people How to handle toxic people and their traps? The most common people ask their counselors, teachers, parents, and leaders. Yet very little is known about the subject. Most of you even don’t know what these toxic people are and how to identify them. In this post, I am going to tell you about them and their traps and how to handle them and avoid their pitfalls. Toxic people are those people who suck your soul out and make you feel bad about yourself to feel good about themselves. These are people who are the real nightmares for those who are not toxic themselves. How to Identify them Identification of toxic people is not easy because they manage themselves so intelligently that sometimes you wonder why the hell you are living with such psycho or sociopaths next doors. This list is lengthy, but I will try to mention just a few which literally and metaphorically sucks your soul if…

Content writing is the backbone of the modern economy. Even though 90% of jobs will be taken by AI artificial intelligence in the next decade; however, creativity is beyond its capabilities. Skills and employment will still be required, like content writing, persuasion, marketing, and acting arts. Why we still listen to online marketers and copywriters that relevant content is still the king? This and much more will be discussed in this post. First things come first; let’s know what content writing is? In short, content writing is a communication of messages among customers and businesses to sell ideas, products, and services to them. Like every communication, it is two-way communication. The process of communication is visually depicted in this Infographic. First, the sender sends a message. For this purpose, he encodes this message then chooses a medium to approach the receiver. When the receiver receives the message, decoding takes place after understanding this message; feedback is given. However, the role of noise…

Jealousy is the characteristic of a person having low self-esteem, self-worth, and inability to keep or achieve common desirable possessions; place, person, or thing. There is nothing more painful in love and relationship as jealousy. It makes hearts and souls bitter, resentful, and regret over time and resources. Let us have an in-depth look at this phenomenon and sort out the psyche behind this jealousy. Here we go; Jealousy in relationships It pops up when the advantageous partner in any aspect takes advantage over another due to natural or acquired qualities and skills, and the less advantaged one passively sees, and grudge, hate, anger, resentment, and boredom mixed emotions when blown like Strom jealousy comes in the scene and destroy anything which is left. It is the worst nightmare of a lover, spouse, partner, colleague, and neighbor. A relationship is the result of mutual respect and understanding but, when jealousy comes in the picture, it shatters the core concept of…

Psychologists, self-help experts, and philosophers from ancient times are concerned with dreams and realities, illusions, perception, and other forms of consciousness. Some define the world just sensed by senses; others argue about perception. Their main argument is that we see what we want to see, not the other way around. They give more importance to perception than sensation. However, the question here is, how to quit media not feeding your dreams? Dreamers consume healthy media; there is no substitute for fresh and classified information about the present and future. To dream big, you must change the media you consume. Media is a tool of transmission of ideas to mind and mind process these raw materials to make patterns for action. Sometimes they are of use, and sometimes not if it makes you focus on your dreams, it is the media you should consume on the other hand, if it binds you to issues not concerning you than you are consuming…

Success is freedom of soul, and heart alright, but what about failure? This question makes me think twice when deciding my life and death issues. It makes me wonder why it is so liberating that I have a choice to choose from success and failure? It makes me feel better when I chose success over failure, and when I fail in something, it teaches me to listen to my heart and soul, reflecting a matter with a whole different perspective. I feel free to ask for better from the universe, nature, and God to help me out of crisis or failure or temporary setbacks. I love to consider myself a fortunate child of nature, and just like a child, I am willing to fail again and again to learn walking and then running towards my dreams. People who have been successful in their lives were the most failed and not pretty much promising people; however, they listened to their inner…

There are countless ways of self-motivation. Success in its self is the best way to motivate. However, people like me who wait endlessly for miracles to happen following methods are regarded as adequately efficient. Let’s have a look at them; 5. This time shall pass The number one motivator amongst all coming next ways for motivation towards success. There is a story attached to it once a king told his wise minister I want a ring with the carved message. If I see it in sadness, I feel happy, and when in happiness, it makes me feel sad. He went and came with a carved ring to him. The words were, “this time shall pass” it was exactly what the king desired. Whatever situations you are facing, either excellent or bad, remember my friend that this time shall pass. 4. Your time will come We as a whole in this society of distraction and time-wasting systems don’t value time. While…

The best time I think for standing up for yourself is the tough time life, and its circumstances have given you. It is hard to think clearly in the fog of uncertainty, but sometimes we have to listen to ourselves deep down if we want to be reliable and dependable. Life is hard, and there is no joke in living life worth living. It does not matter how hard your life is or how difficult the situation might be if you choose to fight back, then this post is for you. Read and let me know was it helpful or not. Know yourself Yes, you read it right. Know yourself if you don’t know how to know yourself read this post first. Without knowing yourself, you are destined to fall back into your limiting vision of yourself. Knowing yourself helps you to find your reasoning to stand up for yourself in ambiguous and risky situations. It also helps you out…

Climate change the worst has yet to come: Eleven thousand scientists and environmentalists have gathered together and announced the environmental emergency however we all are on the edge of Hell busy in our TV, Facebook, and Twitter, isn’t it social apathy we all as a whole are displaying daily. The custom of the world is to sink head in sand hiding behind the scenes and enjoying themselves to some narcotic fantasies. We are heading to Hell, yet no one is concerned except those wizards of the modern age who want to fear us about our environment; we are destroying it with our two hands. The day is not far when the supercomputers and robotics will fight against us to free this world of our negative influence. We are destroying our ecosystem, the biosphere, and the earth, our only planet in this solar system where we can live and breathe. I wonder what will be the excellent time for us to…

Sometimes it is tough to sort out what you will expect from your life, and you are interested in changing your thinking patterns. At the same time, it is quite simple to let others destroy your inner peace. Sometimes it also seems that you are wasting your life, and that is the time to change. The psychology of mind shift tells that whatever you are going to change, but if you are not changing your mindset about a situation. It is hard to convince yourself about the current situation. When you think that you are going to succeed, something happens, and you and your life is upside down, and you are drowning again in the sorrows, guilt, shame, and regrets. It is hard to start all over again, but if you fail to do so, you will never reach your dreams, goals, and targets. I am a living example of seeing how far I can go mindset. It is hard…