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    Do you want to succeed then stop blaming others

    Stop blaming others Stop blaming other which is killing you. All expectation you have about other will dash into ground and will be shattered into pieces where you will just complaining nothing else. We all are living in in a society where everyone has an assumption that their current situation is the results of others. Our stories are same with the reference to success and failure. We expect others to call us and not the other way around. Sometimes we fall due to our expectations of others because we are not taking responsibility to be better than present curmustances. My advice to anyone who is interested in self -development is to end your expectations of others. No one will ever bother your hunger, anger and thirst only you will experience it and will leadyou to take actions. Don’t sacrifice yourself for mean people they don’t worth your time, attention and sympathies. Your life is yours, take full responsibility over it.…

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    Print Advertising vs. Online Advertising

    Print Advertising vs. Online Advertising Introduction In general, we live in a society where we are bombarded with advertising campaigns held by marketing giants for fortune 500 companies in the US and many globally. Marketing segmentation, demographics, psychographics are various aspects of targeting markets and consumers. Advertising is a process of marketing products and services either a company’s own or outsourced businesses. Before online advertising, print advertising was the norm. Although both media have their own merits and demerits, yet the superiority of one over others is not proved yet. In the following paras, we will discuss both and mention their effectiveness and drawbacks to fully grasp the subject matter. Definition: Print Advertising is a kind of advertising where we print content and place it where consumers can find them. It may be in the form of newspapers, Wikipedia, business magazines, posters, billboards, letters, and postcards. It was a popular form of advertising in 20th as well as in the…

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    Philosophy of pain and its necessity to succeed

    Philosophy of pain and the necessity of pain for success You are nothing as compared to where you want to go. Life is simple but not easy, every warrior must know that. Peaceful warrior is a warrior of will and determination. I oppose this notation of temporary pain. The pain of constant level at a continuous pace is essential for wroth. We only grow when we are in pain. Pain pushes us to change everything around us. Our brain is not designed for pain; the more painful the experience the more brain avoids it. However, the reward of pain, in the end, convinces the brain that pain at a certain level is necessary for growth. I am the great fan of Nietzsche’s notation of pain, and it says, stages of conversion of pain into spirituality are painful. In order to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually we need to accept pain and appreciate it in our lives to succeed in life,…

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    40 ways for creating a success mindset

    Success is the set of mindsets that tells you how to win the battle of procrastination of your inner self to realize the creative power of imagination and visualization? It also lets you know the fantastic struggles of the fight that is inside you, and you are the only one who can help yourself to win. If you chose not to help yourself, your dreams start dying, and this is the death, even your body is still alive. The vital aspect of mindset is that you can create and destroy it with your thinking pattern and the fantastic methods of guiding your subconscious. If you want to create success mindsets, you can do that with your affirmation and subconscious guidance through positive self-talk and encouraging literature feeding your mind, heart, and soul. If you want to destroy your success mindsets, do negative self-talk, listen to your nay Sayers and influence your subconscious with destructive literature that can ruin your inner…

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    Seven subjects for successful entrepreneurs

    April 22, 2020 The entrepreneur is a pilot of a ship he is sailing for new worlds of opportunities and possibilities. Business is a field of carefully taken decisions that make profits for the involved. These business leaders should be aware of innovations so that they can take the benefits they are seeking. I think, as an entrepreneur, you must be aware of the following fields of studies to drive your results and thrive in the unlimited possibilities to achieve massive success. These fields of studies will help you in your business as well as in your life. My research and personal experience as an entrepreneur taught me that if I want success in my life and business, I must have a basic knowledge of these fields. Because of these all awesome basics, I can leverage my share from the world so you, too, can take advantage of these powerhouses to develop your small business to big corporations. Are you…

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    Pakistani Denial Part first

    The denial in psychology is a choice to deny facts to avoid or minimize the psychologically uncomfortable truths. Psychoanalytic theory, call it a defense mechanism that says that when a person confronts a painful event, hurting. Regretful to accept, so they reject it to satisfy them that it is not correct when there is significant evidence to prove them wrong. And they have little to no proof of their choice. Pakistani denial is the collective unconscious of a nation that daydreams. Still, when they wake up, their situations become worst, and this the topic that I will talk in this and upcoming posts until and unless it seems that whatever I have to say is finished. There is no need for further writing. As a Pakistani writer, I am also confronted with the conflicting facts and realities that exposes itself daily. However, this pandemic taught me many lessons that will help me in my journey of further investigation of this…

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    Daring to be great

    Daring to be great is the worthy cause that makes it beautiful in its structure as well as a function that is the core of being champion. The vulnerability to stick to your daily conditions and useless routines is the sure way of being lost in the worthless hand to mouth life, or I call it the rat race. You will see that there is no crowd at the extra mile. Once you decide to leave the ordinary people with their irregular routines and chores, you start living the life you always dream about. The first step is tolerance of a nonsense shit the average throw at you. The second is patience while trying and failing in your dreams and goals. The first step towards greatness is to start looking at ordinary people in their lives; they live for food, fame, money, and their heritage is only their children that they born. Other than this, they have no desire to…

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    Learn to Step forward and never quit

    Experience has shown us countless times that each step taken in the conquest of fears and doubts is worth considering. Mistakes are just a new type of learning we all have to embrace. It is awful to feel sorry for yourself, yet not more than self-pity, showing us the doors of hell. Learning to step forward and never quitting is a long journey of self-fulfillment and self-respect. We, the learning and evolving creatures, learn to leave only when we stop learning. Let us stop for a moment and look at what is learning and how it works to keep us motivated and on track in times of struggle and pain? Learning Learning is a process through which our behaviors change for the good or worse. We can say in other words that learning is a permanent change in our behavior. Process of learning Important is that we all are in the learning process from the cradle to the grave. We…

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    How to be an eminent Psychologist?

    It is simple, but not easy. Being a psychologist is not an easy job. It needs patience, high self-esteem, and power to stick to your goals. It is hard to stand against the storm. With lesser employment opportunities and career success, you will only get satisfaction with life. If this is what you want, you are most welcome. In different countries, the requirements for being a psychologist are different. However, in a psychological community like all other fields, graduation is the first requirement. Then postgraduate diplomas are those training facilities which enhance the skills of graduates and turn them into professionals. According to (DAPA) Division of American Psychological Association (2007), 52 branches have been recognized. These are those fields in which researchers have done PhDs. So you have a broad choice of selecting among them. Various universities and degree awarding institutes are conducting separate programs mostly in clinical, educational, forensic, development, and I/O psychology. However, there are still other ones…

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    Psychology of Success in academics

    This topic is not new; we come up from different backgrounds, want to succeed in academics. Yet we don’t know how to do this. Doing research is not an easy task, but taking opinions from those who have achieved greater success in academics is comparatively more straightforward. Being a teacher, and above-average student, where ever I go, teachers and students ask me different questions about academics. All questions cannot be answered in just one post, but the most important ones can be explained in the given limits of a post. Let’s see what they ask: How to achieve greater success in academics? It is easy, study more, study effectively, study continuously, and you will achieve greater success in academics. Which path to follow to see maximum results? The path of hard works, dedication, commitment, and patience should be followed to see maximum results. This means avoiding the path of least resistance in academics. I am not a critic of luck,…

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    All that you want to know about Scholarships

    Scholarships are fully funded or partially funded opportunities for students having the potential of progress in the ladder of academic success but lacking resources to achieve that. Corporations, organizations, and academic and research institutes offer individuals with talent, these opportunities to pursue and accomplish their mutual interest. Students want to complete their studies, while those providing scholarships have multiple interests ranging from marketing to talent enhancement. SOURCES OF SCHOLARSHIPS Daily Newspapers The most excellent source of scholarships is the daily newspapers, especially newspapers of holidays, either national or internet. Websites The second source is that of websites of academic and research institutes. Higher Education Commissions Higher education commissions, i.e., HEC in case of Pakistan and DAAD in case of Germany. Every governmental body across the globe has access and fully aware of such opportunities. Magazines and Journals Academic magazines and research journals are rich sources of scholarships. Scholars People who have secured such scholarships are another excellent source of information…

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    Primary Education in Pakistan

    Primary/elementary education Primary/ Elementary education is the first step of our educational system. It is the early stage of formal training followed by secondary and higher education to step up on the leader of the educational success pyramid; one is required to pass on this stage. It starts from nursery or prep and ends at nearly 5 class/grade in Pakistan. There are two types of schools in Pakistan. Governmental Schools Private Schools In Governmental schools, children aged 5-6 years begin this journey of academic excellence. At times when we were studying, there were no nursery or prep classes; instead, there was only one class called KG locally named as KACHI of one year. After passing this class, students were promoted to one grade or level, and the typical journey of education would take place. However, in recent years this method was replaced by two years preparation period generally known in public as KG-1 AND KG-2 or Nursery and Prep. These…

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    Top five important skills for content writing

    There is always a skill set for any given field. Counselors need listening, interpretation, understanding, and empathetic abilities. Teachers need speaking, knowledge, and teaching skills. The same is the case with content writing and writers. Being in the field for years, I have come up with these top five crucial skills for content writing. They are; 1) Reading This is not only a skill but the fuel of the creative process of writing. Reading makes everything better. It makes you think, feel, and express better. It is the driving engine of creative life. No great leader, writer, and marketer was ever successful without reading. All great people were great readers. So, if you want to go for greatness, you need to be an avid reader, and if you don’t wish to any, there is no need to bother this. Being able to write is the result of great reading. So, you need to read as much as possible. Anything which…

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    The 5 step approach to content writing

    Do you want to know something? You first ask questions to make it clear whether the matter of concern is worth time and effort or not? The same case is with content writing. Let’s ask the following questions and try to answer them so that you may learn what is content writing, how to do it, who is going to do, and why you should invest time and resources to master it and take full advantage of it? What, How, Who, and Why? Let’s start with the first question, which is, what is content writing? Well, the simple answer is that it is a skill like singing, dancing, painting, and gardening. It is a skill sought by online or offline businesses, organizations, cause, and marketing agencies to persuade people for good to buy ideas, products, and services. The second question is how to do it? Well, it is done through an in-depth study of a subject matter in hand and try to…

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    Five steps to make your content writing style

    Style comes with experience and persistence if you are beginning your journey of content writing, then you should not be worried about style, but it is not just like that. This writing is a skill developed through hours and hours of work, literally blood, sweat, and tears. No one was ever able to play this as a game. It is hard; cold, lonely, and throne filled road only the most patient, tolerant, and humble among us choose this. Making your style It is formed through a lot of hard work; however, it is not impossible; it is just to try your best for your style. How to do this? Here is a stepwise approach to make and continuously improve it through time and experience. Step first Study yourself Know thy self was the slogan of ancient scholars, and it is a popular concept among psychologists today too. So, the first step for you is to study yourself deeply. No need…

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    The primary Facebook settings you must know

    In this age of piracy worldwide, privacy is just a daydream. But, it is crucial to do whatever is possible to protect your privacy. In social networks like Facebook, despite all the hidden tactics and piracy practices, you still have a right to choose privacy in your account settings. Following basic settings of Facebook can be selected for your safety and peace of mind. It will also save you a lot of time and psychological labor if you are continuously working on your profile to untag yourself from dozens of pictures of friends or mutual friends than this post is for you. Never forget to share this with your family and friends. Here we go; 1. Tagging One of the worst nightmare you will find after refreshing sleep is to find your inbox full of notification of comments on pictures you are tagged in; it makes you tense and destroys your inner peace. How to get rid of this headache?…

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    The art of content writing Series part one

    What is content writing? You are online, and you are chatting with someone for hours; if you collect all your messages from talking or instant messaging system, you have many topics to write, and this is content writing generally. Like every other art, it is nourished through persistence, dedicated work, and hours of study and reading. Why content writing? Content writing, in itself, is just writing anything about anything else; however, in online business, it is a gold mine. As gold is an ultimate goal of mining, so is content writing; pursuing someone to buy an idea, products and services are the only purposes. Businesses can’t do this all the time because their focus is on business processes; the cash flow, employees, taxes, legal issues, competitors, and market politics, they have more things to do to get maximum profit from their businesses. Who will write content? There they need someone who can write for them to make a professional look…

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    Success mindsets for the content writers

    This post is all about the success mindsets for the winning content writers from values, capabilities, dreams, visualizations, persistence, and writer blocks. I was hoping you could read and let me know in the comments what do you think about these mindsets. Values are expensive Values can’t be cheap they are costly, and you are providing value and values are expensive never think yourself as a focus of attention in this online business you should focus on the customer but not the expense of your self-respect. Values are costly, so your providing value is of importance to others. You are capable The most valid assurance you need to feel that you are capable of is from you and you only. Never beat yourself down just because someone rejected your proposal; this is a game, and it has its own rules. Instead of focusing on rejection focus on learning, this experience is worth trying. Just like any other game, the more…

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    How to handle toxic people and their traps

    Toxic people How to handle toxic people and their traps? The most common people ask their counselors, teachers, parents, and leaders. Yet very little is known about the subject. Most of you even don’t know what these toxic people are and how to identify them. In this post, I am going to tell you about them and their traps and how to handle them and avoid their pitfalls. Toxic people are those people who suck your soul out and make you feel bad about yourself to feel good about themselves. These are people who are the real nightmares for those who are not toxic themselves. How to Identify them Identification of toxic people is not easy because they manage themselves so intelligently that sometimes you wonder why the hell you are living with such psycho or sociopaths next doors. This list is lengthy, but I will try to mention just a few which literally and metaphorically sucks your soul if…

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    Basics of content writing

    Content writing is the backbone of the modern economy. Even though 90% of jobs will be taken by AI artificial intelligence in the next decade; however, creativity is beyond its capabilities. Skills and employment will still be required, like content writing, persuasion, marketing, and acting arts. Why we still listen to online marketers and copywriters that relevant content is still the king? This and much more will be discussed in this post. First things come first; let’s know what content writing is? In short, content writing is a communication of messages among customers and businesses to sell ideas, products, and services to them. Like every communication, it is two-way communication. The process of communication is visually depicted in this Infographic. First, the sender sends a message. For this purpose, he encodes this message then chooses a medium to approach the receiver. When the receiver receives the message, decoding takes place after understanding this message; feedback is given. However, the role of noise…

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    Four games most real estate agents play

    It has been years when I left my home town for pursuing my dreams and chasing and hunting them. It took me years of focused and dedicated hard work from there to here where I am now. In these years, I changed my residence in according to my study and practice. While doing this, I came up with some valuable lessons and learned to adapt according to the situation. Some crucial tips helped me choose my current residence with cost-effectivity and in the center of the city from where I can move elsewhere quickly and conveniently. However, it sucked my soul at times while searching and dealing with real estate agencies and agents. I meet dozens of estates agents, agencies and landlords, and landladies. What I have learned in this period I am going to share with you so that you can avoid a lot of psychological, financial, and health-related hurdles in choosing your best residence from agents or agencies…

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    Psychology of jealousy in relationships

    Jealousy is the characteristic of a person having low self-esteem, self-worth, and inability to keep or achieve common desirable possessions; place, person, or thing. There is nothing more painful in love and relationship as jealousy. It makes hearts and souls bitter, resentful, and regret over time and resources. Let us have an in-depth look at this phenomenon and sort out the psyche behind this jealousy. Here we go; Jealousy in relationships It pops up when the advantageous partner in any aspect takes advantage over another due to natural or acquired qualities and skills, and the less advantaged one passively sees, and grudge, hate, anger, resentment, and boredom mixed emotions when blown like Strom jealousy comes in the scene and destroy anything which is left. It is the worst nightmare of a lover, spouse, partner, colleague, and neighbor. A relationship is the result of mutual respect and understanding but, when jealousy comes in the picture, it shatters the core concept of…

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    11 ways to quit media not feeding your dreams

    Psychologists, self-help experts, and philosophers from ancient times are concerned with dreams and realities, illusions, perception, and other forms of consciousness. Some define the world just sensed by senses; others argue about perception. Their main argument is that we see what we want to see, not the other way around. They give more importance to perception than sensation. However, the question here is, how to quit media not feeding your dreams? Dreamers consume healthy media; there is no substitute for fresh and classified information about the present and future. To dream big, you must change the media you consume. Media is a tool of transmission of ideas to mind and mind process these raw materials to make patterns for action. Sometimes they are of use, and sometimes not if it makes you focus on your dreams, it is the media you should consume on the other hand, if it binds you to issues not concerning you than you are consuming…

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    Success is freedom of soul and heart

    Success is freedom of soul, and heart alright, but what about failure? This question makes me think twice when deciding my life and death issues. It makes me wonder why it is so liberating that I have a choice to choose from success and failure? It makes me feel better when I chose success over failure, and when I fail in something, it teaches me to listen to my heart and soul, reflecting a matter with a whole different perspective. I feel free to ask for better from the universe, nature, and God to help me out of crisis or failure or temporary setbacks. I love to consider myself a fortunate child of nature, and just like a child, I am willing to fail again and again to learn walking and then running towards my dreams. People who have been successful in their lives were the most failed and not pretty much promising people; however, they listened to their inner…

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    Negative beliefs and their consequences

    According to Albert Ellis, our false beliefs are the driving agents of our actions and our actions, in turn, our thinking negatively, and this vicious cycle leads us to abnormality. He categorized these thinking patterns into the following points. One should be competent, adequate and achieving all the time This is a source of modern world stress, depression, and anxiety. That we think that we should be relevant, sufficient, and achieving. This is life and not a race. It is good to be competent, adequate, and achieving, but what if we do not? Is life will finish, or we will not survive the pain of incompetence, inadequate, or underachieving. The truth is that it may be the case, but if we work on ourselves, we can be competent, adequate, and achieving most of the time. Not all of the time. It is a fact, not fiction. Unhappiness is externally caused, and people have no control over it The second pattern…

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    The psychology of friendship series part 1st

    The psychology of Friendship is based on mutual trust, respect, and unconditional love. Friends with benefits are beyond the scope of this post. Psychology is the study of mental processes, behavior, and their mutual relationship. Friendships are the roots, as well as the fruits of this short life. Life is a time set given to everyone who is breathing right now you are reading this post, so you are alive. I am writing right now, so I am alive too. Well, you can ask me why I have chosen this topic for today’s post. Let me tell you that the reason behind this is that I am happy because I enjoyed the company of my friends today. I was busy all day with my friends. They were happy and enjoying their lives, and I was too, but when we met up with each other when forgetting that what we are now, we were just friends. We shared our dreams, passions,…

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    Self-motivation 5 mindsets for your life and work

    There are countless ways of self-motivation. Success in its self is the best way to motivate. However, people like me who wait endlessly for miracles to happen following methods are regarded as adequately efficient. Let’s have a look at them; 5. This time shall pass The number one motivator amongst all coming next ways for motivation towards success. There is a story attached to it once a king told his wise minister I want a ring with the carved message. If I see it in sadness, I feel happy, and when in happiness, it makes me feel sad. He went and came with a carved ring to him. The words were, “this time shall pass” it was exactly what the king desired. Whatever situations you are facing, either excellent or bad, remember my friend that this time shall pass. 4. Your time will come We as a whole in this society of distraction and time-wasting systems don’t value time. While…

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    6 step formula for guiding your youth about their issues

    Youth is the dominant population of any given country across the globe. They are the future of every nation, yet the most neglected segment of the population is youth. The isolation, loneliness, and stress experienced by young people suggest that we must do something to address their problems. The suicide rate can be reduced if an opportunity to guide youth is availed. Their personal, academic, and professional development must be a priority for the government, NGOs, and other interest groups. They need someone to consult in their times of distress. They need to be guided about severe questions of life. Their rebellion against the set systems of thought is not due to the fact but the fiction of lack of experience, intellectual depth, maturity, and, most importantly, the lack of ground reality. They can be guided, and they listen more than any other age group as per my experience. Due to psychological, biological, and social changes and transitions, they need…

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    How to stand up for yourself in a tight time

    The best time I think for standing up for yourself is the tough time life, and its circumstances have given you. It is hard to think clearly in the fog of uncertainty, but sometimes we have to listen to ourselves deep down if we want to be reliable and dependable. Life is hard, and there is no joke in living life worth living. It does not matter how hard your life is or how difficult the situation might be if you choose to fight back, then this post is for you. Read and let me know was it helpful or not. Know yourself Yes, you read it right. Know yourself if you don’t know how to know yourself read this post first. Without knowing yourself, you are destined to fall back into your limiting vision of yourself. Knowing yourself helps you to find your reasoning to stand up for yourself in ambiguous and risky situations. It also helps you out…

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    Climate change: the personal and universal approach

    Climate change the worst has yet to come: Eleven thousand scientists and environmentalists have gathered together and announced the environmental emergency however we all are on the edge of Hell busy in our TV, Facebook, and Twitter, isn’t it social apathy we all as a whole are displaying daily. The custom of the world is to sink head in sand hiding behind the scenes and enjoying themselves to some narcotic fantasies. We are heading to Hell, yet no one is concerned except those wizards of the modern age who want to fear us about our environment; we are destroying it with our two hands. The day is not far when the supercomputers and robotics will fight against us to free this world of our negative influence. We are destroying our ecosystem, the biosphere, and the earth, our only planet in this solar system where we can live and breathe. I wonder what will be the excellent time for us to…

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    The Psychology of Mindshift

    Sometimes it is tough to sort out what you will expect from your life, and you are interested in changing your thinking patterns. At the same time, it is quite simple to let others destroy your inner peace. Sometimes it also seems that you are wasting your life, and that is the time to change. The psychology of mind shift tells that whatever you are going to change, but if you are not changing your mindset about a situation. It is hard to convince yourself about the current situation. When you think that you are going to succeed, something happens, and you and your life is upside down, and you are drowning again in the sorrows, guilt, shame, and regrets. It is hard to start all over again, but if you fail to do so, you will never reach your dreams, goals, and targets. I am a living example of seeing how far I can go mindset. It is hard…

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    All that you want to know about CSS: The Central Superior Services

    All that you want to know about CSS: The Central Superior Services What is CSS? CSS stands for Central Superior Services, it consists of competitive examinations to sort out the suitable individuals for certain jobs, positions, professions, and fields. Federal Public Services Commission of Pakistan and Provincial commissions take examinations of individuals who wish to join them. They chose the most suitable individuals among desirous candidates. Keeping into the perspective of an increased number of graduates these examinations are being updated gradually from tougher and more difficult content to know the grasp and potential of an individual who wishes to join them. Importance of CSS To choose among the talented and intellectually or academically advanced individuals for posts or positions designated to administer governmental daily works with efficiency and productivity. F.P.S.C relies on individuals having leadership qualities, academic excellence, and unquestionable obedience. This examination is divided into three phases. Written Examination This is the first phase of CSS examination. Generally,…

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    The psychology of creativity

    The psychology of creativity An Introduction The psychology of creativity is a study of creativity. Creativity is a gift and it should not be wasted in daily chores. We all are creative however, most of us don’t know how to express our creativity. What I know from my own experience as a counselor, writer, and editor that use of our imagination is creativity, while abuse of it is illusion, hallucination, and antisocial ideations. It is interesting to know that whatever comes in your life are just the product of your imagination, your power of focus, unwillingness to accept your ignorance of life. Knowledge is a tool to know and understand life. Experience is your subjectivity when both mixes up you become an enlightened being. The more you are determined and willing to pursue your dreams the more you are drawn to your creativity. It is accessible to all of us who want to join the legends league. The champions like…

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    Society and the Psychology of individuality series: Part First

    Everyone is interested in opposing society these days. But, what is society actually? No one is actually speaking the truth that an individual is a structural and functional unit of society. It is easy to talk ill about society, its norms, and customs but we forget that we are those individuals who are actually shaping our norms, customs and lastly the society. Psychology says that individuality is our birthright. It is not a synonym of individualism or collectivism. It is basically the perception of an individual that he is responsible for his society, not the other way around. An important part of an equation is that it is an individual who influences society, not the society which influences the individual. The individual is a living organism and society is the collection of individual norms and regulation. The better results lie in the formation of an association between individual and society. The connection among individuals which is provided by society is…

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    Sports Psychology and success in sports: Part first

    Sports Psychology and success in sports: Part first Sports are organized exercise out there to keep us healthy and away from various diseases in case of physical health and disorders in case of mental health. Psychology is a branch of philosophy deeply rooted in understanding the why-questions of human behavior and the underlying mechanisms we can call mental processes. Sports psychology It is a field of applied psychology which concerns mainly with the player, their mental conditions and the behavior the show in the field and out of the field. Keeping in view, the broad application of this field few important and key feature are discussed here. The anxieties of failures Ask anyone in the sports industry, how they are anxious? What actually failure means to them. Professional sportsmen and women are more prone to anxiety disorders than other population, due to a small margin of tolerance in this industry to failure. Sometimes these are hard to lose, due to years of…

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    Cross-cultural psychology Series: Introduction

    Cross-cultural psychology Cross-cultural psychology is a field of study in which we study the similarities and differences of basic psychological processes i.e., learning, perception, memory, emotions, motivation, etc., between two or more than two cultures. In the modern era of study and research, we need more Cross-cultural psychology to understand the patterns of conflicts and how to resolve them in the first place. Most of the world conflicts are due to a lack of understanding of cultural differences. In this series of posts, you will find important information about different cultures and you will not see other people with anger any more after understanding their cultural values and norms. This is an introduction so, you will feel a bit frustrated like I was in its class, but the time you start knowing differences and similarities of different cultures you will feel excited and more interested. But, without reading this post you will not be able to understand and enjoy other posts in…

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    Psychology of passion: Stay passionate in your life

    Stay passionate in your life because passion is the key to everything. Once a monk said to his disciples while pointing to his heart that, your path is here and this path leads you to everywhere. Most of the time, we resign for striving less, stretching less for our maximum potential. We lose passion and motivation- the driving fire within is which is responsible for our mental and spiritual growth. We became intolerant in the face of adversity and uncertainty that we lose hope and become very cynical about our choices and decisions. Nowadays the best or the worst feature of society is, it allows us to choose countless choices. It creates confusion; the good about too many choices is that there is always a better choice over there. We have to just search. We became very sensitive to pain, which grows us stronger, more resilient and passionate physically and psychologically. Passion drives you and your life to the ultimate…

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    Introduction to Psychology of Success series

    Psychology of success is simple yet most of us don’t know that it takes one decision to change our lives and careers forever. Success is our default state of being, from inception to birth, from infancy to childhood, from adolescence to adulthood. we can’t live without success, life without success is death. My intention is not to offend or defend anyone in present, past or in the future. What they have written, spoken and learned about success. My only intention is to express my ideas on success and how I found it, what it meant to me and what it means to me now? How it transformed me and how it can transform anyone who is as obsessive and addictive of success as I am? I dedicate this series to my students, patients, clients, friends, teachers, and parents who believed in me more than I believed myself. The only thing they wanted and prayed for was to see me successful.…

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    Seven ways of E-Governance in Pakistan

    E-governance is a type of governance where digital and online platforms are utilized to improve the quality of good governance and avoid the shortcomings of offline communications among governments and their citizens. Developing countries like Pakistan can take help from this type of governance without expanding its human resources and other resources too. Estonia is a global leader in e-governance, no doubt in their management and politics have changed the face of the world. This possibility can be used by many countries especially in remote areas, rulers and urban areas where lack of human resources can build-up problems in governance and proper management. It is highly suggested in countries like Pakistan, the gap in communication and distance among villages and cities has contributed a lot to the miscommunication among the government and its citizens as well as among the administration and its local bodies. Ideal situations and promises about such situations have created this mess that every government points finger…

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    Psychology of religion Series: The power of religious beliefs in healing and feelings

    Psychology is regarded as a field of study of mind, it’s processing and it’s relationships with behavior the overt and convert ones. Religion is a system of beliefs and set of practicing the rituals to fulfill duties as a membership by a person. Psychology of religion is a relatively new discipline as compared to its other counterparts. However, the focus of the field is on research and in-depth analysis of the religion, its power of construction and destruction. Religion is constantly a target of agnostic or atheists, blaming game and scapegoat for political and racial conflicts, and the brainwashing of innocent people on the name of the religion and mass genocides. Psychology of religion is now interested in possibly healing factors in religious beliefs as well as its power to heal humanity. Religiosity is a lifestyle inspired by religion and religious coping is the mechanism for enhancing health and mental health. To know better what is a power of religious…

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    Psychology of decisions your path to success

    Decisions They are strong thinking patterns that lead us to act in a certain way. Pushing us to change or adapt and makes us fight or flight the situation. Survival and instinctual decisions are unconscious domain and they are not included in our topic. It is concerned with conscious and insightful decisions we take to choose our life direction, career, personal, and professional risks and all other types of decisions we take to take ourselves from zero to one. Psychology of decisions Psychology is a field of study concerned with the internal software of our brain, saying to us how our brain works and what can be achieved if the mind was reprogramed. From brainwashing to mass enslavement, from religion to political polarities, from education to discrimination all are just a few faces of psychology. The underlying mechanisms of individual and societal thinking patterns and programming of human civilization is only achieved by employing the basic principles of psychology. Consequences…

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    Psychology of Time series: The Past

    It was fascinating to study Einstein’s general theory of relativity in which he, theories that the time and space are relative. A person who is standing at a distance from the train and the passenger who is traveling in the train perceive both in motion or movement. However, both are in a state of rest, only the train is moving. A person experiencing pain in her body perceive one minute as one hour while a person with her loved ones perceives one hour as one minute. This is where the concept of relativity comes into action. This phenomenon is called the psychology of time; the past, the present, and the future. The past is all about your lessons, training, and hustles. The present is the result of past decisions, actions, and thinking patterns, and The future is a child of the present, it is in your hands to give birth to your desired baby. Success needs patience It is hard…

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    Psychology of little things: The Introduction

    Success is key to self-actualization, the peak experience of wellbeing and life satisfaction. It is hard to work in situations where your ideas and values are in conflict. You don’t feel right when you are fighting with your own values. New world order The regulations of the world are not important if you have chosen that you are the master of your destiny. It is better to die in the battlefield fighting your own battles rather than the fighting of those fights you even don’t know why you are fighting and with whom you are fighting. Are you solider of dead or alive Being one of the solider of the dead it is better to choose to live and fight for alive. All of us who fight for themselves take whatever they want, those of us who settle for less find only left overs. It takes lion’s heart to hunt and feed you with pride rather than being jackal in…

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    How to win with the decision-making process

    Decision making is the rule to win in life; we have too much to lose before we find ourselves, dreams, and inspirations. In this post, you will find about decision making and the barriers to it and how to eliminate those barriers to succeed in your life. Let’s talk about the process first. Identification This process starts with the identification of an issue or problem and the decisions for solving these issues. Information In this stage, you start gathering all relevant aspects of the issue and all possible decisions which can help you to sort out alternatives. The Alternatives After the information collection process, you have to sort out all possible alternatives that can help you in the next stage. Weightage of pro and cons Here you weigh the pro and cons of those alternatives and the consequences of your decisions you have not yet taken. Selection After weighing the pros and cons of all possible alternatives, now you can…

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    Psychology of time (Joy and Sorrow)

    Psychology of time (Joy and Sorrow) We have limited time Most of us believe that we have time to do anything at any specific moment. However, in reality, we have very limited time. Only loving and living people have the time of eternity all others have a very short interval of time. Most of us only realize this when our time is finished. Present moment is Life Living this present moment fully is the life we have lived, all dwellings on the past, and worrying for the future are either footstep on sand or just dreams. Past has given us shadows and future visions which come only into reality when you dedicate your present time and energy to them. Results of time spend There are two outcomes of time spend- joy or regret. In most cases, most of us are regretting our life, for not achieving our goals and dreams. The Joy Joy only comes with fulfilled, finished and completed…

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    Self Actualization: You deserve more than this

    Self Actualization: You deserve more than this Personality Psychology Today I have to talk about this main area of personality psychology to whom Carl Rogers and Ibrahim Maslow call self-actualization, which is the main theme of personal psychology and growth and development, which is, “I deserve more than this”. Don’t settle for less Many people get comfortable, they stop stretching and pushing themselves to higher goals. They stop thinking about their advancement in education, health, finance, and spirit. They stop working for themselves, because of fear of failure. And the simple advice is doing not ever. Someone’s opinions of you should not become your destiny or reality. You are in charge of you destiny You are the one to decide, you are the one to choose, you have the right to change, alter and select your reality. I am here to say to you that you deserve more than this. If you are working somewhere, for someone and you have…

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    Congratulations! and welcome to the world of Sufi and Sufism

    Congratulations! and welcome to the world of Sufi and Sufism At times losing someone is less painful than having someone. Love is a complex matter. Some people avoid it, some embrace it. While few live in love for life. They sink in ocean of love and then they returned to the crowd to give them a message of love. At times we are blind to love then we are possessed by it. Love begins at birth and grave can possibly end this connection. However, dreams, hope, words, deeds and behaviors live in space of limitlessness. Hope is a beggar, belief is blind, and religion and science are lame if love is not in it. I believe on religion of love. It surrounds everything and like nectar it always searches for emptiness of heart, mind and soul. It connects three dimensional being in one whole. This whole is all bigger than its parts separately. Love doesn’t fight with neither for nor argue with logic. It is illogical…

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    The Positive Psychology Series: Part First

    Mental diet and its benefits “Fed your mind healthy thoughts daily”, one advice we listen countless times from our counselors and their warnings, “If you make it strive of it, it will give you miserable thoughts.” Thoughts are like seeds if you sow it in the fertile soil. It will grow into your desired plant and fruit. You will surprise yourself while having its fruits. The mind is like a muscle the more you train and discipline it the more it serves you. The more you nurture and nourish it with healthy and positive mental diet, the more it benefits you in the long run. Stress is beneficial if your mental attitude about it is right. Most previous researches in Health psychology proved the link of high stress with cardiovascular diseases, gastrointestinal disorders, mental disorders, and other bio-psycho-social issues in the long run if this state persists for longer periods of time. However recent studies show that if your mental…

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    All that you want to know about Time management

    Time is your life Yeah, you read it right, time is life. How you want to spend it is up to you. Everyone here is given 24 hours to live. It is totally up to you whether you want to live it fully or leaving it fully. There are two kinds of people in this world. The one is interested to take risks to live a fearless life. The others are busy complaining about each and everything. You have to decide whether you want to live a life of contribution or that of misery it is totally up to you. The basic unit of Function You may have studied in basic science classes that cell is the basic unit of structure and function of life or living things. The same applies here too. Whatever you want to function, you need time to function well or at all. If you haven’t time it is next to useless even think about you…

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    Psychology of Success series: Stop Blaming Others

    Stop blaming others which is killing you personally and professionally. All expectation you have about others will dash into the ground and will be shattered into pieces where you will just complaining nothing else. We all are living in a society where everyone has an assumption that their current situations and failures are the results of other’s behaviors. But, in reality, whatever we are facing right now are results of our own thinking, doing and being. We share the same stories Our stories are the same with reference to success and failure. We expect others to call us and not the other way around. We expect others to help us but we don’t bother to help them first. Sometimes we fall due to our expectations of others because we are not taking responsibility to be better than present circumstances. Betterment comes with dedication, hard work and commitment towards creating possibilities. Don’t waste your sympathies My advice to anyone who is…

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    Psychology of Success series: The courage to act

    Success literature indicates in many ways a firm and stable rule which is the courage to act. Most of us see big dreams yet we lack the most important ingredient of success the courage to act. That’s why we are not successful, we are stumbling upon success and happiness. Dreams are just illusions or hallucinations if we are not acting upon them to make them a reality. How pity it is to have big dreams but die with sorrows and regret? Dreaming love and respect yet being single and lonely with loneliness, stress, and depression. The most important idea of self-help philosophy is acting upon your thoughts. Action is the building block of success because it paves your path from stones thrown at you in shape of circumstances to build a bridge among you and all your doubters and naysayers. All successful people have one thing in common they are doers rather than just thinkers. Thinking is the first step…

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    Psychology of Success series: The Confidence

    Confidence defined Applied knowledge is power and knowing that you have this power is confidence. There are too many seminars and workshops on this topic yet the majority of our working population lack this quality at some point in their lives. Confidence is an attitude Confidence builds up from daily workout on your life’s goals and dreams. We are living in the world full of dreamers yet only one percent of world’s population is those who accomplish their success through confidence and a positive belief that they can do anything which they want to do. Universal responses This universe has only two types of responses to all people who want to manifest their dreams: i.e., first yes and second maybe. There is no such thing in the universal dictionary of nature as no or never. If you say that you can do it you will do it. Heart is angel Your heart is the agent of infinite intelligence says yes…

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    How to Know that you are the one, you are waiting for?

    How to Know that you are the one, you are waiting for? Learn from your rejections: After facing a number of rejections I have come upon this decision that if you are measuring yourself with other people standards you are degrading yourself, your worth the self-esteem and integrity. No one is perfect including you and no one is imperfect either, this is a crucial part of the equation 99% people forget when they are categorizing themselves with others. Human Nature: We as human are evolutionary, revolutionary, creative, innovative and growing mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Nothing is the same as it was created. We, humans, are continually growing and our journey is to be a better person and not the perfect person. Avoid Perfectionism: Perfectionism is a misuse of our imagination and creativity. Creativity is all about small steps taken daily towards our destination, while perfectionism is a long jump in which we only break our bones. With broken legs,…

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    Psychology of Fears; The fear of the unknown

    Psychology of Fears; The fear of the unknown Death of creativity is only one thing- uncertainty. While today’s’ society will try to convince you that what you are doing doesn’t have any value. And you will lose your motivation- the fire inside you which pushes you to greatness. Fear doesn’t exist- it is only in your mind. If you can create it you can destroy it too it is intangible. First time when you will do something you will feel it. But remember that your dreams, ideas, hope, and inspirations play a great role in shaping your life and imagination and visualization will clear up your way to you. Although we say that there is no such thing as fear, whether it is of unknown, failure, rejection, success or anything else. But like people diagnosed with schizophrenia we have to believe that there is commanding power and someone is dictating his behavior, someone is talking without having any physical presence…

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    Psychology of fear: How to use it as a compass for your journey of life and love?

    Psychology of fear: How to use it as a compass for your journey of life and love? Today our main concern is to explain the fear. Unlike others, I will explain fear as a compass for your goals, dreams, and achievements in life. When you observe your fears day in and out, you look for ways to improve your life, because fear is an indication that something is wrong in the system. And your body system works entirely by your mind as you installed your fears in it, you can uninstall it too, your fears are intangible. You can’t see it but you can feel it. When you face your greatest fear, you set free yourself forever. Fear is a dream killer but in reality, fear is there to strengthen your dreams and make them happen in reality. I like this quote,’’ walls are there not to stop you but are there to know how bad you want to break…

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    Psychology of Change: Second Part

    Psychology of Change: Second Part How to avoid the trap of stagnation? The fear oriented Change Psychologically, fears are the emotional reactions of change in the outer or inner environment of an individual. These are the irrational beliefs, that change will steal everything we are in possession of now. But in reality, there is no link of change and bad experience. Even people who fear change say after a long period of time that change was for their good. However, we are paralyzed by our fears, when we seek to change. Although it is difficult to say that those who fear change will ever change their perspective of this process, however, change will make its own place in present or in future of such people. Here are some of the byproducts of fear oriented change; Regret You read it right, yes regret when we don’t change and change makes forcefully changes us. The first thing we experience is regret. Regret…

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    Psychology of change: Part First

    Psychology of change: Part First How to avoid stagnation trap? Knowing that change is inevitable, most of us try to avoid or ignore it. Only a few amongst us take a step and realize the chance of growth mentally, emotionally and spiritually. The purest form of water smells bad if it remains stagnant for a while. Human nature wants to change. This is the change which is responsible for innovation in life and in the world. The only way to enjoy change is to adapt and respond to change positively. Change is the law of nature and those of us who are not happy to see change at the first place will eventually trapped by stagnation. Mental attitude towards change during transition to change is very important. Failing which makes us bitter and resentful. If we search Google for this term, “change” it shows us about 11,940,000,000 results which are enough to show the importance of this term. Song “change”…

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    The Science and the Art of writing how to achieve greatness

    How to achieve greatness? To stand still in the storm is a courageous act. Everyone is supposed to be mediocre, leading lives of the average person who eat, drink, and sleep which are vacuous cycles of devilish nature. No one is allowed to escape it. Escape is not ideal. One must have to choose to live her life freely. No great expectations, no bargaining, no excuses, no self-doubt, and pity. Life is a game one should first warm-up before the game. This warming up opportunity is given by education, self-training, and the decision taken during this age we call adolescence or adulthood. A person having talent but not skilled can’t go too far. “Talent we got naturally but skill is developed through hours and hours of training and hard work.” (Will Smith) No one could ever disagree that the future lies in the present and present in the past. A worthy life is a gift of talent and skill. Without…

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    Psychology of peace and war

    Psychology of peace and war Peace and war are not fictional or political concepts but they are embedded in us by default. These both kind of behaviors are in our nature. These both needs to be addressed before jumpiong to the conclusion of this question: Why war? and then Why not peace? War is not just an absence of peace neither peace is an absence of war, nor any other way around. War is defined as an individual or collective effort of individuals or groups to achieve desirable goals or eliminate threats to ones lives or necessities of life. Peace is defined as a process of transformation to avoid war and adopt any measure to resolve conflicts is converted into war. Both are only related to a sense that one follows the other. Psychology of war and peace is all about the mental processes involved in it and behaviors displayed in this to understand those behavioral patterns and mental processes which may…

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    Religious extremism and its psyche, recommendations for law and order systems

    Religious extremism and its psyche, recommendations for law and order systems Most of us don’t know that psychology is a field concerned with the human mind and behavior. The mind is a powerful weapon if left untrained. Un tame beast and untrained or un discipline mind are both similarly dangerous the only difference is is the giant within and the giant outside. Religion is a way of life that genius among us has shown to us. This solves most of our existential issues. Try to answer most of our questions and queries that our conventional knowledge fails to answer. We are not aware of such practical answers to our questions by education or experience. Religion gives us basic laws or experiments and explanations which can give us a clue to solve the daily problems we face in our lives and community. Religion also provides us the code of life. How one can live his life? What to do and what…

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    Amazing worlds of our Minds

    Amazing worlds of our Minds Most of us are not aware of our mind and how it works? Amazing worlds of our minds are more beautiful than our imagination and more complex than the whole universe. It is a small universe of its own and have its own mysteries, opens on those who try to discover it. Let’s talk about mind, how it works, what is it all about. How it thinks and how one can train it? The mind is a logical and thinking mechanics of human being. It processes anything logical and concludes something out of it. It is fluid in nature. When nothing is given to it, it starts processing the unfinished tasks and thinking junks to conclude something from it. So that those finished and completed files could be arranged in their designated folders. It works continuously without any rest. The more you use it the more it expands, the less you use it the less…

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    Don’t stop running towards your dreams!

    Don’t stop running towards your dreams! This frustration, anxiety, fear, and uncertainty will lead you to the ultimate goal-which you want from the depth of your heart. There is no one to come to rescue you. You are the only one left for your rescue. Why? Because you can do this because many people have done this before. Human history is a witness of this claim that you can do it too. It’s not only possible but necessary. Remember my friend that this constant worry is for a very short time, everyone experiences hardships in the beginning after passing this stage each day comes as a blessing and you will enjoy the rest of your life, this frustration. So think big but start small. Don’t let others distract you. Don’t let present rejections and disappointments lower that burning desire in you. Keep it burning because this is the only reason you are here. No one knows why he/she is here…

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    Checking: The psychological burden on the citizen

    Checking either material or physical one is a psychological burden on the citizen. More than enough evidence is shown to the many policymakers that your citizen are frustrating, and their anger can produce many human-made disasters that will make your life and profession miserable for you. Civilians are also human beings who need respect and trust from you. If this is your egoistic issue, then enjoy the dance of dragons that will devour you alive. Here are a few reasons that will convince you that you should refrain from this practice as soon as possible. It creates a sense of insecurity. Each citizen believes that he is safe and free in his state and territory. Still, when they are searched and checked frequently, it develops a sense of insecurity that leads to rebelliousness and disobedience. It gives hatred the way. It gives hatred the way Journey is mostly tricky and energy-draining when you search and check them it further makes…

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    Major industries to check your luck in 2020

    Major industries to check your luck in 2021 and years after that. Although these industries are classic and traditional ones, you can work on them to improve the quality of services. You can also increase customer satisfaction with your innovative methods and procedures that will amaze them. It will also help you to increase productivity and profitability. Remember that whenever there is any crisis, either political or financial, there are countless doors of opportunities that look your way to open them. In the challenging periods of this corona pandemic, you will see possibilities if you choose to see them. Transportation  Transportation is in those evergreen industries that have a lot of potentials to increase your productivity and profitability because of the majority of the population across the globe. They need it whenever they want to move or visit the market, hospital, and school or other institutions necessary for living. What will you need? It depends on your investment of resources.…

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    How to meet deadlines for your urgent projects

    The one question I have listened to countless times asked by teachers, students, researchers, writers, editors, professionals belonging to different fields of life, and business is this question, How to meet deadlines for your urgent projects? Although there is no joke about it. However, it is frustrating, but, indeed, you can’t afford to say, I was not free to fuel my car on time. It means that your journey or destination was not worthy enough that you could check everything beforehand what can go wrong if you don’t check it. The truth always will hit you to the ground if you don’t have a preplan to do you are going to do. Our teacher of social psychology would always tell us that we should have a clear cut B and C plan; if plan A doesn’t work, we will have another idea to complete our task. This is the answer to your question, How to meet deadlines for your urgent…

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    Daily Motivation for 2017

    Daily Motivation for 2017 Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least. Goethe Nothing is more dangerous than an idea when you only have one idea Emile Alain The person who takes no chances generally has to take whatever is left when others are through choosing. Napoleon Hill A good teacher protects his pupils from his own influence. Bruce Lee All achievement, all earned riches, have their beginning in an idea. Napoleon Hill Every action has its pleasures and its price. Socrates. Every generation imagines itself to be more intelligent than the one that went before it, and wiser than the one that comes after it. George Orwell You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself. Swami Vivekananda Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile. Mother Teresa…

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    Best Quotes of 2012

    Best Quotes of 2012 Find like minded successful people and learn from them. Your first duty is to polish your creativity. Be nice to your colleagues for good performance. Hear more speak less. Don’t discuss things not related to you. Give pure love if you can. You are student don’t forget your duty to read, write and create. Think positively it will give you rise in every field you want to pursue. Respect others they are creation of the Creator worthy of your respect. Never hide yourself and personality to avoid complexity in your attitude. Do what you want to do for humanity. Create your own universe. Remember pain makes people change so don’t hurt them if you don’t want them to change. Life is all about priorities.

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    پاسِ اظہار ہے پر سوزِ تمنا نہ رہا

    پیامِ مشرق پاسِ اظہار ہے پر سوزِ تمنا نہ رہا جو قابلِ دید تھا موسیٰ نہ رہا کہا یہ کس نے تجھ سے اے واعظ! گیسوئے یار میں اُلجھا جو، مسلماں نہ رہا دین کیا کارِ محبت کے سوا ہے کچھ اور؟ زاہدِ تنگ نظر، تاجر ہے، بے پرواہ نہ رہا آئینہ ٹوٹ کے بکھرے تو خرابہ ہے دل! اسکا اک جلوہ گر یاں ہے، تو وہ ٹوٹا نہ رہا دلِ تباہ کے تجلی کو ڈھونڈتا ہوں میں ساقی کے جام میں یارب!ٓ کوئی نشہ نہ رہا نگاہِ ظاہر نے توبہ کی، بصیرت کے لیے دل کی نگاہوں میں تو وہ اب آشنا نہ رہا دیوانہ پہلے تھا، پاگل بنا دیا اب تو پہلے اپنا تو تھا پر اب تو میں زندہ نہ رہا جب سے یہ لاش اُٹھائی اپنے کندھوں پہ ہےشوقِ دید اب بھی ہے پر اب تو میں زندہ نہ رہاشکوہ تھا دل میں سو محفل میں کہ نہ پایا میںجب آئے سامنے تم یارائے گریہ نہ…

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    میں بھی تو تجھ سے پیار کرتا ہوں

    بعدالتِ عشق میں بھی تو تجھ سے پیار کرتا ہوں کاش! ایک بار کہو تیرا ہوں جان تجھ پر نثار کرتا ہوں نقش کا کاروبار کرتا ہوں ہر میخانے سے کہاں پیتا ہوں تیرے پیمانے کا شیدائی ہوں محشرِ دل میں ہنگامے لاکھوں شاعری ہے زُباں، زمانے کی تم معطر کو جانتے ہو کیا؟ کاش اے یار! کہو میرا ہے

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    نوائے راز

    دل کی بستی پہ راج تیرا ہے مجھ میں سارا مزاج تیرا ہے نوائے راز، دل جنوں آمیز مجھ میں یہ امتزاج تیرا ہے شامِ زندان میرے الزام! میں کہاں جاؤں؟ ’’دلِ ناکام میں کہاں جاؤں؟‘‘ جون ایلیا لب و رخسار قصہِ ماضی اُلفتِ جام! میں کہاں جاؤں؟ مجھ ناراض فقیہانِ شہر شہرِ گمنام! میں کہاں جاؤں؟ جامِ جم، تختِ سُلیمان و ارم تم سے کیا کام، میں کہاں جاؤں؟ ذات زندان کی صورت ہو تو ایسی ہو شام، میں کہاں جاؤں؟

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    یاد آئے گا مجھے گھر اکثر

    یاد آئے گا مجھے گھر اکثرمیرا کمرہ، میری تصویر، میرا آئینہ کہ جس میںروز میں دیکھ کے چہرہ بس یہی سوچتا تھاکوئی ہے مجھ میں، مجھ ہی کی طرح آوارہ مزاجلب ہی سوال سے ناآشنا ہیںتشنہ لب مجھ سے طلب کرتے رہے جام پہ جامبام پہ دار بنا رکھا ہے ظالم نے میراکسے وجود کا ہمراز کروں؟کون ہستی کا کاروبار کرے؟کون آتش سے کھیلے مثلِ طِفل؟کون دل کو میرے پھر شاد کرے؟کون فرہاد بنے پھر کوئی فریاد کرے؟کوئی شریں بنے فرہاد کو آزاد کرے؟کوئی سوہنی ہے جو ماہیوال کو ناشاد کرے؟کوئی دھرتی ہے جو بچوں کو یوں برباد کرے؟کوئی ہستی ہے جو دل کی صدا سُنے ہی نہیں؟کوئی جوگی ہے جو رقصِ جہاں سے بات کرے؟کوئی صوفی ہے جو خرقہ پوشی پہ ناز کرے؟کوئی مُلا ہے جو دیرینہ راز فاش کرے؟کوئی منصوؔر ہے جو دار کو بدنام کرے؟کوئی شبلیؔ ہے جو جام لُٹائے پل پل؟کوئی بہزاؔد ہے جو نقش اُتارے دل کا؟کوئی رومؔی ہے جو آتش کا کاروبار کرے؟کوئی نانکؔ…

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    میں اب اُس دلنشیں کی بات کروں؟

    دلنشیںمیں اب اُس دلنشیں کی بات کروں؟خواب اب جاگتے میں رات کروں؟اُس کو مسند پہ بٹھایا دل نےدل سے اب کس جفا کی بات کروں؟یا تو اُس کی دہلیز پہ بیٹھوںیا اُسے خُود ہی اپنی ذات کروںکیا یہ قصہ نہیں ماضی کے ہجرتوں کا داغیا تجھے بت کہہ کے داخلِ سومنات کروں؟تم نے کیا سمجھا، سمجھاؤ تو کبھیاشک، آنکھوں سے کیا برسات کروں؟تم سراپا خُمار بن جاؤمیں تجھے عشق کی سوغات کروںاُس نے جاتے ہوئے یہ کتنا کہااُسے روکو، میں اُس سے بات کروںاناپرست ہے وہ یوں شکست نہ مانے گااُس کے کیا اور حکایات کروں؟وہ معطر ہے وہ نہ مانے گااُس سے کیا دل کی کوئی بات کروں؟

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    کسی دن میں بھی روں گا

    گریہکسی دن میں بھی روں گاانا کا خُول اُترنے کا نام لے تو سہیآنکھیں پتھرائی ہوئیوحشت دل پہ ہے طاریتجھ سے ملنے کا حوصلہ نہ رہاتیرے بغیر کچھ اپنا نہ رہاانا کیسی خُدائی ہے؟یہ کیسی کبریائی ہےنہ سانسیں اپنی ہوتی ہیںنہ آنسو رو کے آتے ہیںبِن روئے کیسے آنسو ہیںمجھے معلوم ہو کیسے؟میرے ہاں زندگیعریاں ہی رقصاں ہےرقاصہ رقص میں محومیں آپ اپنا تماشائیتمنا رقص کرتی ہےدلِ بے تاب کی دھڑکنجنون آمیز رقصاں ہےمجھے جینے کے نام پر ہنسی ہےملال آنکھیں مجھے ہی ڈس رہی ہیںمجھ میں یہ کیسی روحیں بس رہی ہیںہمیشہ دیر کرتا ہوں تو منتظر آنکھیںتھک ہار کے سو جاتی ہیںسُناہے نیند میں روتی ہیں میری آنکھیں بھیاپنے خلاف کھڑا ہوں نجانے برسوں سےبہت گلے ہیں، خُود سے، تم سے، زمانے سےوہ دل میں ہے جو مکیں،برسوں سے ملا بھی نہیںپہلے خُدا تھا پر شایدوہ اب خُدا بھی نہیںتلاش ہے کسی ویرانے کی جس میں روؤںیوں سینہ شق ہو کہ صحرا امان پائے نہیںجو جام ہاتھ میں…

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    ابھی تو خواب باقی ہیں

    ابھی تو خواب باقی ہیںابھی تو لفظ تُشنا ہیںابھی تو درد کے قصےادھورے اَن کہے سے ہیںابھی تو جاگتے راتوں کے غم کچھ کم نہیں ہوئےابھی بھی مجھ سے باغیمیرے ہی الفاظ کہتے ہیںمیں پاگل ہوں۔۔میں میخانے میں بہکی باتوں کا مجرم ہوںانا و رقص کے قاتلمجھے سنگسار کرتے ہیںمجھے نیلام ہونا ہےکوئی بازار دکھاؤجہاں پاگل بھی بکتے ہوںعطا ہو یہ عنایت ہو

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    کسی کی یاد، ذہن میں عذاب کی سی ہے

    ’’نہ دل میں خون فراہم نہ اشک آنکھوں میں‘‘ فیض کسی کی یاد، ذہن میں عذاب کی سی ہے الجھ رہی ہے جو ہر شب کسی کی زلفوں سے کسی کی بات، خزاں میں سراب کی سی ہے جو مسکرائیں تو دل باغ باغ ہو جائے بقولِ میر’’ لب پنکھڑی گلاب کی سی ہے اور پھر ان نیم باز آنکھوں میں ساری مستی شراب کی سی ہے‘‘ الفتِ شام زندگی ہے تمام شدتِ غم نقاب کی سی ہے ضبط گر کر کرا کے جی لوں تو دل میں یہ سُر رباب کی سی ہے سحر قریب، شبِ غم گزر ہی جائے گی یہ آروز بھی معطر نواب کی سی ہے

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    ہم لوگ ہیں مجرم یوں محبت نہ کیا کر

    ہم لوگ ہیں مجرم یوں محبت نہ کیا کر اے شہر کے باسی یوں شرارت نہ کیا کر رکھتے ہو کیوں یہ خار تم میری راہ پر اے پیراہہنِ پیر حفاظت نہ کیا کر ,, بچہ ہے ایک دن تو یہ بوڑھا بھی ہوگا دل،، محسن نقوی اس ٹوٹے ہوئے دل کی بھی خدمت نہ کیا کر جھولی میں ڈالدو ہو جتنا پیار بھی دل میں دل مانگنے والے سے بھی نفرت نہ کیا کر مرجائے معطر تو بہت دیر سے آنا پر دھوپ کے کارن کچھ بھی زحمت نہ کیا کر

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    شامِ غم یوں بسر نہیں ہوتی

    شامِ غم یوں بسر نہیں ہوتی غمکدے میں سحر نہیں ہوتی تنہا بلبل ہی تو چہکتا ہے کچھ چمن پہ نظر نہیں ہوتی وادی ذات میں بھٹکا ہوں میں مجھکو اب کچھ خبر نہیں ہوتی ہوں کھڑا میں تو آبشاروں میں آرزو دربدر نہیں ہوتی اب تماشوں سے مجھے کیا لینا شاعری عمر بھر نہیں ہوتی

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    یار کی دہلیز تک آیا تھا میں

    یار کی دہلیز تک آیا تھا میں پر نہیں معلوم کیوں لوٹا تھا میں دوقدم آگے نہ جانے کی سزا دے رہا تھا خود کو یہ سوچھا تھا میں ناز کے لائق تھا وہ اپنا صنم یار کی دہلیز پہ رکا تھا میں سوچتے رہنے کی عادت چھوڑ دی جب سے اس راز پہ سمجھا تھا میں پیار کی سبھی راہیں فریب تھیں حیف! کتنا درد سے تڑپا تھا میں ساحلوں پہ دھوپ میں کچھ ڈھونڈنے مثلِ پاگل، آوارہ پھرتا تھا میں کوئی سیپ موتی سمجھ کے ڈھونڈلی خود کو جو اک جوہری سمجھا تھا میں آہ! نادانی تھی میری آہ! دل یہ جوانی میں کیوں نہ سمجھا تھا میں پیار کا یہ کھیل ہے جادوگری اس کے رازوں سے کبھی آگاہ تھا میں آج اک خلش سی دل میں ہے مگر پیار کی قسموں میں ہی جھوٹا تھا میں پیار تو عریاں ہے اپنے راز سے کسقدر غفلت ہے ناآشنا تھا میں روز اپنی محبتوں کی قبر پہ شمع،…