Literature,  Mental Health,  Reflections,  Society

Love and the secrets of the Universe and life

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Life is just like a pendulum- to and fro are its secrets. Sadness and happiness are just its two faces it shows to us. I have seen and listened to people complaining about their lives that they haven’t seen happiness and prosperity in their lives.

Most of us don’t know that sadness and happiness are just states of minds which can be changed. It is a subjective case. For us to thank, everyone and everything, it takes years to realize that we had that specific gift and we didn’t realize it. Regrets then steps in and our minds tricks us for misery and self-criticism. Superego starts its blaming game.

We as a whole don’t know what to do with our lives. Our lives sometimes seem like a mesh or jigsaw we are not able to figure out what the hell we are heading to. Indecisiveness pops up and heads us to spectators of our lives rather than active players. We start looking at our weaknesses, discrepancies and are not able to see future ahead of us bright, shinning and worthy of seeing with joy. Loving and living and fearing to live are totally two opposite mindsets.

We are living in society, where being average makes us eligible for rewards. Being different above makes us eligible for rewards. Being different, above or below average makes us the target of bullying, torture, and shame. Today’s modern society admires geniuses of the past but shamelessly and ruthlessly rejects and scolds today’s geniuses.

Now this is the classic hypocrisy of our age. Naturally we are connected to each other. However this loneliness is not the absence of social relationship but absence of that specific relationship to which you can say whatever you have to say.

Our world is surrounded by secrets, these secrets are all around us to unveil them and share them with humanity. It is our duty to stand up and speak up, because grave is not the suitable place to go with secrets. It’s not our fault to misinterpret secrets. However it is our fault to not discover the undiscovered secrets in our lives.

We can tap our potentials by stepping towards love. Love hurts there is no doubt in this but this hurt is far better than pain of hate and regret. Hate burns everything in its surroundings. God has given one godly thing to us humans and it is love. Hate comes after it. My intention is to give you a message of love.

I am concerned with the creative power of love. I have listened a lot of people,” well! These facts are known to children as well,” and my reply is always like this, “yet seventy years old are struggling to do it.” I am the great advocate of self-love to the level that at times I think that I am upraising narcissistic tendencies of this society.

However diving deep into its meanings and researching its various aspects, I concluded that love starts from oneself. Claim of loving others without loving oneself is just a day dream and it is not authentic but fake.

Love start testing us before it starts opening its secrets to us. Love is beyond words, however, words always strive to define and explain it. Without sinking in the ocean of love how one can understand the language of love. Poetry is truly called as language of love, but if it is complaining, jealously insisting for attention of the lover to me it is not then.

Love is the name of surrender and accepting anything from beloved. This is the only path where no guide can guide you. If you are willing to love, it can unveil its charms and secrets to you. In that situation you don’t need approval even from yourself. You become love and exist in love to be love at the end.

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